I try not to be that person who lives for the weekend, but the truth is, when your life follows a routine of 9 - 5, it’s difficult not to. You know all of your fun stuff will take place between 5pm Friday and bedtime Sunday evening. That’s not to say I don’t do any fun things during the week. Last week in particular little Miss had one of her friends over for dinner, and then there was a lovely walk with the pugtato one lunchtime. Mostly, however, Monday to Friday is the home of routine.
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The local park on the dog walk |
Friday night, after our usual Friday night fish n chip dinner, we went to a local craft beer bar to meet up with a friend who I’ve not seen in a really long time. Maybe a year. This particular bar is always welcoming and has an amazing selection of beers on tap and in cans. We found ourselves a nice roomy corner table and I enjoyed a couple of porters while we chatted away. W’s husband caught up with us after a while and we all had such a lovely night. I need to not leave it so long next time!
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Craft bar |
Saturday morning me and little Miss had a lie in. Once she does wake up at the weekend, she likes to watch TV in my bed. This time around, her chosen viewing was Rainbowcorn unboxing videos on YouTube (if you know, you know). So, after our leisurely brunch of scrambled eggs on warm croissants, when we decided we’d go to the York shopping outlet for a meander, she couldn’t wait to gather up her pocket money in the hope that she’d find a bargain Rainbowcorn at Claire’s accessories.
It wasn’t quite what she’d had in mind, but she did find a bargain Kittycorn, so she was incredibly happy for the whole day. I wasn’t going to take an outfit shot while I was out shopping, but when a lady approached me to tell me how fabulous I looked in my outfit, I got little Miss to take a quick picture outside one of the shops.
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Lots of layers keeping me warm |
I thought I was going to be leaving the outlet empty handed, and that would have been fine, but in the last shoe shop (Carvela), I found some gorgeous shoes that I couldn’t leave without. Another pair for my imaginary party lifestyle, I’ve really got to make more effort to circulate more of my shoes rather than leave them all in the shoe chest for 95% of the time.
Sunday morning was an earlier start. I was heading back down to York to meet up with the chap and head to National Trust property, Beningborough Hall.
We were blessed with blue skies and bright sunshine when we arrived just before noon, but it was terribly cold and I was grateful I’d wrapped up in plenty of layers. First stop was the cafe for cheese scones and coffee (and lots of dog bothering), before we took a wander around the walled garden.
At this time of year, the gardens on stately homes can feel quite stark. Nothing is yet in bud and it’s still a very wintery landscape, but as we walked off into the woodland, it was heartening to see the first signs of spring. Snowdrops.
Where’s there’s sun shine and snowdrops, there’s hope.
We walked back up through the new Mediterranean garden, which was very inviting and calming with its water features, cypress trees and seating areas.
Entering the hall I was impressed by the grandeur of the space, complemented beautifully, I thought, by an art installation by artist Rebecca Stevenson. While modern, it felt in keeping with the surroundings.
The house itself, with its large sash windows and grand rooms felt filled with light. A pianist played a grand piano downstairs and it all felt very relaxed. It was beautiful, but I was eager to get to the exhibition of works by Mary Delany, on the 1st floor.
Mary Delany was a botanical collage artist, born in 1700 she didn’t find prominence as an artist until she was in her early 70s. It proves it’s never too late!
She was famed for creating incredibly accurate botanical studies from collages of water coloured paper. From afar, they look like botanical paintings, but up close you can see the intricate mosaic work which must have taken hours of focus, dedication and concentration.
I’m a big fan of botanical art anyway, I think it’s a beautiful art form and I find the study of botany really interesting too, so this was a perfect exhibition to pique my interest. We sat for ages just admiring the flowers.
Elsewhere in the house, they showcased examples of women’s art and crafts as housed across the National Trust estate. I found it quite inspirational because I would love to learn to sketch and watercolour, but I always struggle to know what to select as my subject. One lady’s sketchbook filled with lifelike paintings of apples made me realise, it’s about the practice as much as the subject. So, maybe I’ll dig my sketch book and watercolours out again.
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Mind blowing cross stitch |
After a wander around the gift shop, where I purchased a print of one of the images from the Mary Delany exhibition and the chap bought me a new brooch, we set off to get Sunday dinner in a village pub. It was a lovely day out altogether! Back at home, I went hunting on Vinted for a cookery book I’d seen in the gift shop (and didn’t want to spend £15 on). I managed to find it for £2, which was the perfect end to a perfect day.